Accepting responsibility for the choices I made

 So, after a cluster of epileptic seizures hospitalising me for 5 days, my Girlfriend decides to dump me. To be honest, I'm not cut up about it at all, although she was kind and reassuring during the time I was having fits and I appreciated that, we where definitely not compatible, and I just did not want to be with someone who is so immature and self centred. Being single again is kind of freeing, but it did teach me another lesson in choice. I shouldn't jump at the chance of being with someone new I am not sure about. The clue's where there right at the start, in our first meeting she said 'I was thinking I have made a mistake', this should have immediately informed me to stop it there and then. I should be making better decisions now, so I am going to meditate on this some more as a path to being a better person. I also am still struggling to be financially responsible, but I have at least identified that I have a link between shopping, nice things and happiness that I need to work on. I know the route cause of it, and perhaps some further self publishing will help going forward. I will try to write a journal every day from now on, just on thoughts and feelings, not mundane everyday activity, unless of course it pertains to my self improvement. 

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